The relationship between men and women, childhood feel particularly “mysterious”; Grow up and especially “desire”; After understanding “love and fear.”
Relationships are complex, mysterious and fascinating; Sweet and bitter.
Relationships are beautiful, obsessed and intoxicating; Expectation is still tinged with disappointment.
In complex relationships, there are “four” relationships that touch the heart. If you had to choose, which one would you prefer?
The first type of relationship: “Opposite-sex best Friends”
“Good friends of the opposite sex” : dare not say what you want to say, dare not do what you want to do! They are good friends of the opposite sex. They become good friends of the opposite sex because of work or classmates. They are only limited to simple work communication and fun stories of old classmates studying together in the past, without any emotional collision or emotional entanglements. What are the rose toys? Even when they eat, drink or engage in some social activities together, they never involve personal emotional problems. Even if they fall in love with each other over time, they will not break the paper of “mutual affection”. They will only be good friends and not develop any other relationship.
The Second Type of relationship: The “confidante”
“Confidante” : want to say let go, want to do dare not do! This kind of relationship, easy and happy, each guarding the bottom line of morality, no pressure, no emotional entanglement. In language communication between men and women, there is no taboo, want to speak, want to chat. Even if one side has a short idea, even if speak out, also dare not cross the line. Behind this so-called “spiritual infidelity”, there is a high sense of responsibility and moral bottom line of their families, never betray.
The Third Type of relationship: Lovers
“Lover” : nothing to say, nothing to do! Lover’s relationship is more complex, some relationship easy pleasure; Some relationships are tangled. This immoral relationship has no moral or emotional bottom line. If you are not careful, both men and women can be turned into “third parties” that break up the family. Even if both men and women do not transform into a “third party”, betrayal of each other has become a reality.
The fourth type of relationship: “Wife or husband”
“Wife or husband” : words too lazy to say, too lazy to do! Without love, without feeling (without feeling at all when holding the hand of a “wife or husband”), all that is left is “bickering”; Or “cold war”. POTS and pans, oil salt sauce and vinegar instead of “wind, flowers, snow and moon”; Heartless years stole their love. For life, for family, they strong guard, never bow! Although they “too lazy to say, too lazy to do”, but they trust each other, never betray!